Once Upon A Multiverse Pt. 2

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Maybe he can forge a universe with his bare hands

One where he’s the patron and the painter

One where he reconciles that it’s not his fault she withers

One where he changes Omelas for the better

One where he’s the captain of his fate, liberating foot soldiers

One where he sees the world in technicolor

One where he’s found his tribe of outliers

One where he understands that Icarus was, for a moment, triumphant.

This poem is a sequel to the one I wrote in 2021.
Part 2 concludes my character’s journey and signals the beginning of a hopeful era. I wish the same for you, dear reader.

Joyland: Pakistan’s Misunderstood Masterpiece

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Have you ever seen a movie so riveting that you kept thinking about it hours after you walked out of the cinema?

Joyland is one of those movies. Directed by Saim Sadiq, it’s easily one of the best works of art Pakistan has produced.

One of the things I loved about it was how multifaceted some of the characters were. There were no heroes or mustache-twirling villains, and nothing was portrayed as black or white, which makes sense because most things in life aren’t so straightforward either.

But what is the movie about?

Well, it’s about desire, suppression, and despair.

It’s about a bunch of people in a patriarchal household who have had to settle for lives they didn’t want to live.

It’s about a vibrant, young woman who’s surrounded by people who snuff out her fiery spirit.

It’s about a man who isn’t traditionally masculine and is ridiculed for being the way he is.

It’s about a trans starlet trying to rise up in a society that hasn’t given her any room to exist with dignity and peace.

It’s about an old widow who’s reprimanded and judged for wanting to be loved.

It’s about patriarchal norms that force people to either implode or explode.

In two hours, the movie dealt with nuanced themes and complex characters with incredible finesse.

Once the credits rolled and the screen went blank, the glaring lights shone from above. Moviegoers slowly trickled out of their aisles and flowed out of sight.

Meanwhile, I was sitting beside my friend in the auditorium. For a moment, we just stared straight ahead in silence. We were trying to absorb what we had seen. And as we walked toward the exit, our discussions about the characters and themes began. Heck, I’m still thinking about it even though it’s been ten hours since I got home.

Now, let’s talk about the elephant in the room: the controversy around the film.

Unfortunately, there’s a ton of it.

Joyland’s debut in Pakistan was tumultuous to say the least. People split into two camps: those for it and those against it.

Swathes of people slandered the movie before it was released. They also urged the government and regulatory bodies to ban it for being “highly objectionable” and “immoral”.

The movie was banned a week before it was set to debut in Pakistan. Luckily, Joyland’s cast, crew and supporters pushed back, and on November 13 the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan (HRCP) released this statement:

The public outcry helped reverse the ban. A few details were censored and the movie hit theaters on November 18.

But all is not well because Joyland has not enjoyed a nationwide rollout. A few cinemas have even taken it down out of fear of public backlash.

I think local hardliners are repulsed by Joyland because they have misunderstood the message. In the movie, some characters make terrible decisions, but their actions aren’t framed in a positive light. For example, conservatives believe that the movie promotes the idea of extramarital affairs, but that is completely false. Unfortunately, most of these people have formed an opinion without even seeing the content.

Others believe that the movie promotes homosexual relationships (it doesn’t). This baseless opinion has also become a major roadblock to the movie’s rollout in Pakistan (an Islamic country, filled with hardliners, where homosexuality is outlawed).

At the end of the day, Joyland holds up a mirror to society, forcing us to take a hard look at the festering problems towering behind thinly-veiled notions of norms.

There is this one tiny thing that’s bothering me though. In the movie, there’s a wheelchair-bound man who suddenly doesn’t need a wheelchair anymore…? So, yeah, that was weird.

To sum up, Joyland explores desire, gender roles, and identity in Pakistan. In the future, I’d love to see Pakistani media explore the nuances of asexuals and aromantics. These groups are underrepresented in American media, too. I don’t watch much content from other regions, so I can’t say if that’s how things are everywhere else.

If you know of some shows and movies that do touch on these groups in a meaningful way, let me know.

Thanks for reading and be sure to watch Joyland if you are able to.

Cover photo by Valeriia Harbuz

Once Upon a Multiverse

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Maybe there’s a parallel universe

One where he’s a patron, not a painter

One where she’s happy, healthy, and her heart doesn’t wither

One where he leaves Omelas in search of fairer weather

One where he’s the captain of his fate, not another foot soldier.

One where he sees the world in technicolor

One where he’s found his tribe of outliers

One where he and Icarus know not of the sky’s limitations.

Photo by Johannes Plenio on Unsplash

Artwork (2020-2021)

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I haven’t been posting my artwork here so I’m going to share a few select pieces all in one go 😬

Oh, and, just to catch you up, in 2020 I tried acrylics for the first time. The crane, zebra and autumn scene are all water-based acrylics on canvas :’)

The others are mainly pen/pencil drawings.

And I made the little kingfisher with watercolor pencils—another fun medium I experimented with last year.

This first image is a sketch of Lupita Nyong’o. I loved the dress she was wearing in the photo I used as a reference!

In 2021, I bought a Wacom pen tablet and started experimenting with Adobe Photoshop and Illustrator. Here’s what I’ve got so far.

The second drawing is of a Pallas’s cat and I’d like to claim this beast as my spirit animal!

The last drawing in this series is something I tried to recreate. I don’t know who the original artist is but here’s the reference.

The year’s not over yet so hopefully I’ll make time to create some more stuff.

Until then, adios! And thanks for stopping by!

Social Posts or It Didn’t Happen

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If you had brunch with your friends but didn’t post about it on the Gram, did you even have brunch with your friends?

If you went to the airport to catch a flight but didn’t check in on Facebook, did you even board the plane?

If you went to the gym but didn’t post a mirror selfie with a dumbbell in one arm, did you even work out?

If you didn’t post an outfit-of-the-day selfie today, did you spend the whole day in your birthday suit?

If you graduated but didn’t post about it constantly for a whole 12 months after your convocation ceremony, did you even graduate?

If you got married but didn’t post a picture of a tray with your wedding ring in it, did you even get married?

If you had a baby and took a million identical photos but didn’t post them on social media every single day, did you even have a baby?

If you haven’t been regularly posting holiday photos from 5 years ago, did you even go on holiday?

If you didn’t post a selfie right after getting your jab, did you even get vaccinated?

If you didn’t post every single moment of your life on social media, did you even live?

Cover photo by Ann H from Pexels

What Is It?

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It’s where the improbable can see the light of day.
Where the absurd can have meaning.

It’s where free will is not marred by destiny.
Where every antagonist can be redeemed.

It’s where time asks for directions.
Where rules must not be obeyed.

It’s a universe outside the Asylum.
Where the wolves remain at bay.

It’s your impenetrable alibi.
Where your story takes center stage.

Cover image by Free-Photos from Pixabay

Who Started Playing Jumanji in 2020?

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I haven’t published anything on my blog since December 2018. The current circumstances have, however, pushed me to retreat into my innocuous little writing cave once again.

Dealing with 2020

So far 2020 has been wild, hasn’t it? Bushfires in Australia, flash floods in Jakarta, a volcanic eruption in the Philippines, and then a full-blown pandemic!

It’s almost like somebody pulled out Jumanji and decided ‘what the heck, let’s have a crack at it’.

Honestly, out of all the movies you’d wish you could be living in, this ain’t it. But it’s what we’ve got right now and it feels surreal at this point.

When COVID-19 became a major ‘oh heck’ moment and lockdown was implemented, I wasn’t too fazed at the time. I felt comfortable working from home and kept myself occupied with painting, reading, and chatting with friends.

My outlook has shifted considerably since then. So much so that I am aware that it’s having a noticeable impact on my attitude.

I even cut my own hair during lockdown. It didn’t go so well, but I don’t care. I’ve also realized that my writing style and tone now reflect my erraticism.

Truth be told, we’re all experiencing this pandemic in unique ways. Mostly due to varying levels of privilege we have or don’t have.

I feel like COVID-19 has just made prevalent inequalities in our society even more pronounced and has highlighted flaws in our collective systems and the global economy at large.

It’s bizarre how everything is right now. We’re living through uncertain times. (Yes, I know that phrase has been tossed around a lot lately, especially in advertisements, but what can you do?)

Right now, I’m worried about my friends and everyone else I care about. I hope we get through this pandemic with our physical and mental health somewhat intact.  And maybe, some years down the line, we’ll look back on all of this and just be like ‘damn, so that happened’.

I’ve also been seeing this bothersome narrative online about how ‘this is the best time to be productive and learn new things! Follow your dreams’. I mean that’s all fine and dandy, but it’s also okay to cut yourself some slack and just binge-watch some of your favorite shows every now and then without feeling guilty about it.

Your version of productivity doesn’t have to fit the version you’re seeing online.

Side note: I’m so glad I deleted my Instagram and Facebook accounts last year. Being away from these platforms has shielded me from a lot of those ‘inspirational’ posts and picture-perfect moments that, frankly, just made me feel bad about myself and my life in general.

No one’s life is as good as it appears on social media, and that’s a fact.

I went on a completely different tangent there, sorry. Back to the pandemic productivity fetish.

This productivity obsession needs to end

It’s natural to have days when you aren’t feelin’ it, you know? I’ve had those, too, and I would just like to get through this rough patch without self-proclaimed self-help gurus making me feel guilty about how I’m spending my time.

I’ve been productive on some days but other times I’ve just been trying to do the bare minimum to get through the mind-numbing madness that is 2020. And you know what? I’m going to pat myself on the back for that.

I watched this video yesterday and it helped get a load off my shoulders. This is exactly what a lot of us need to hear.

I’ve been rambling for too long. I just hope everyone out there is doing okay.

Stay indoors as much as you can and practice physical distancing. Wash your hands frequently and use tech to stay in touch with the people you care about.

I know it’s hard, but we’ve got to do our best right now.

I’m just going to wrap this up and share some music I’ve got on repeat to calm myself down during this nightmare.

Thank you for reading and Godspeed!

  1. Survivor – Eye Of The Tiger
  2. Simple Minds – Don’t You Forget About Me
  3. Led Zeppelin – Kashmir 
  4. Seal – Crazy
  5. Des’ree – You Gotta Be
  6. Aloe Blacc – The Man
  7. Jason Mraz – Look For The Good
  8. José González – Stay Alive
  9. Capital Cities – Safe And Sound
  10. Tom Misch – It Runs Through Me

Experience Luxury – Dusit Thani, Bangkok

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Pamper yourself with the very best Bangkok has to offer. Dusit Thani is the epitome of luxury and ultimate relaxation. The hotel is located on Rama IV Road near the Sala Daeng BTS Station, right across the lungs of Bangkok, Lumpini Park.

 

The hotel boasts some of the finest dining options in the city. From traditional Thai cuisine at Benjarong to excellent Chinese culinary delights at the Mayflower and the most delicious steak you could hope for at Hamilton’s Steak House.

The Lobby Lounge is also a great place to sit back and relax as you treat yourself to an array of delicious cakes and pastries along with a drink of your choice.

 

Benjarong Thai fine dining restaurant takes you on a journey with its Thai specialties and exquisite atmosphere. The service is impeccable and will truly make you feel like royalty.

I tried the following dishes from their recommended menu:

  • Goong Homsabai (Tiger prawn), egg noodle, sauce Roe.
  • Goong Mae Nam Khawmao Grob sauce makham River prawns, pounded rice, kaffir lime, tamarind sauce.

 

The next morning, I had breakfast at The Pavilion, an all-day dining area which serves mouth-watering international dishes. Breakfast timings are 6 am to 10.30 am. Do yourself a favor, wake up a bit early, perhaps at 8 am because you’ll get your table quickly without having to wait in long queues. Enjoy your breakfast without having to rush.

Later that day, I dined at Hamilton’s Steak Restaurant and ordered the roasted chicken with parsley-garlic and baby potatoes. It was a symphony of the perfect flavors and textures, a great dining experience. The atmosphere had a cool vibe. The antique picture frames on the walls made for a great aesthetic.

Hamilton Steak

Last but not least, I dined at Mayflower, the Chinese restaurant. I had dumpling with hot and sour Sichuan Soup. That really hit the spot. The restaurant had a regal atmosphere, altogether proving to be a great culinary experience once again.

Mayflower

I retreated to my room that night at the hotel. The rooms in the hotel are exquisite and offer a great view of the city. The cityscape at night is even more inspiring. One last look out the window and I was off to bed. It was a memorable experience.

Dusit Thani rooms